Episode 28

But... My Pet Can't Relax Around Food!

Do you dream of a peaceful coexistence between your pets?

Or does your dog launch into action if your cat so much as moves from their spot? Does your cat struggle to relax if your dog is playing?

If only everyone could chill out a little!

Lots of people come my way hoping for just that, which is why I launched the Cool as a Cucumber Challenge. This challenge is for those who want a dedicated program to help their pets coexist peacefully.

But there’s a common wall that people come up against. How do you get dogs and cats to relax around each other when they go bonkers over food? Food reinforcement is a huge part of training and is part of my relaxation protocol, so this episode is all about that.

Before you jump into the Cool as a Cucumber Challenge, here’s a freebie that will help you rethink and outline your food reinforcement strategy so you can get the most out of the challenge.

Key Moments

[0:48] Why you should plan for the unexpected

[1:50] Rethink your food-based reinforcement strategy

[2:26] Why you should sometimes use the lowest-value food you can

[3:58] How our behavior when giving treats influences our pet’s mood

[5:03] How to calmly signal that food is on the way

[6:27] Why you can’t just switch up your reinforcement strategy and expect miracles

[7:15] Why you should refresh your reinforcement strategy before attempting the relaxation protocol

[8:24] How to know your pet’s ready for the relaxation protocol

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About the Podcast

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It's Training Cats and Dogs!
The podcast for cat-AND-dog people.

About your host

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Naomi Rotenberg

MA, KPA-CTP
specializing in cat and dog integration

Hi! I'm Naomi, and I'm a "cat-and-dog person" 👋 My goal with this podcast is to speak to people with multi-species households who currently feel alone. There are lots of highs and lows when trying to manage the relationships between your animals. This podcast will give you clear, actionable information and guidance about the unique issues that come up between cats and dogs. And the monthly interviews with my fellow trainers who have cats and dogs will definitely help you realize that you aren't alone!

A bit about me: I'm a certified professional dog trainer (KPA-CTP) and have my MA in Animal Behavior and Conservation. I live in my own multi-species household in Philadelphia, PA with my husband, two human kids, Uri (a mini American Eskimo Dog), and Rio (a domestic shorthair cat). I also LOVE Twizzlers (the original kind, NOT pull-and-peel).

I look forward to getting to know you and your pets on your journey towards a more peaceful and safe coexistence!