Episode 46

Choreographing routines for your cat and dog

It’s hard work managing a full house even when everyone gets along, and for Bee, whose pets can’t be in the same space without tensions running high (and sometimes blood being shed!), it’s getting beyond frustrating.

In this episode, Naomi shares some strategies on how to adjust "baby gate hell" and teach King and Ralph how to effectively give each other space.

Key Moments

[01:48] King's increasing aggression towards the dog, who wants any kind of attention from him, even if she's getting beat up

[06:59] Using setups and cues to teach King less aggressive alternatives for seeking space

[09:50] The pets' current interactions through baby gates at the top and bottom of the stairs

[11:25] Choreographing and rehearsing more appropriate "dances" for the animals to perform when they see each other

[15:38] Creating baby-friendly management

[17:50] Next steps:

  • reinforcing easier versions of "cat appears, move away" for Ralph to get the hang of it, using management when King actually comes down for now
  • changing up how King feels about Ralph by having him see her when she's occupied with something else
  • taking note of any patterns/times of day when conflicts tend to arise, and choreographing "dances" for those sticky spots

[27:15] Switching from a negatively reinforced lack of enrichment to a positively reinforced enrichment routine

Your Next Step:

If you're awesome like Bee and want some guidance regarding your pets' interactions, come join me on the podcast for a free Dog and Cat Chat! Just go to praiseworthypets.com/chat to book a time.

About the Podcast

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It's Training Cats and Dogs!
The podcast for cat-AND-dog people.

About your host

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Naomi Rotenberg

MA, KPA-CTP
specializing in cat and dog integration

Hi! I'm Naomi, and I'm a "cat-and-dog person" 👋 My goal with this podcast is to speak to people with multi-species households who currently feel alone. There are lots of highs and lows when trying to manage the relationships between your animals. This podcast will give you clear, actionable information and guidance about the unique issues that come up between cats and dogs. And the monthly interviews with my fellow trainers who have cats and dogs will definitely help you realize that you aren't alone!

A bit about me: I'm a certified professional dog trainer (KPA-CTP) and have my MA in Animal Behavior and Conservation. I live in my own multi-species household in Philadelphia, PA with my husband, two human kids, Uri (a mini American Eskimo Dog), and Rio (a domestic shorthair cat). I also LOVE Twizzlers (the original kind, NOT pull-and-peel).

I look forward to getting to know you and your pets on your journey towards a more peaceful and safe coexistence!